Anger is an essential part of being human. People are taught to deny themselves anger, and in this, they are actually opening themselves up to hate. The more you deny yourself the freedom to be angry, the more you will hate. Let yourself be angry, and hate will disintegrate, and when hate disintegrates, forgiveness prevails! The more you deny that you are angry, in attempts to be "holy" the more inhuman you will become, and the more inhuman you will become, the harder it will be to forgive. .C. Joybell C.
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People are so often told not to feel anger. They are told to say things like, "I am not angry," "I am not upset," and "I don't have a problem." In fact, people are taught that if they allow themselves to feel angry, then they will become negative, depressed, and hateful. In this way, anger is actually a bad thing. But anger is a vital part of being human.
Anger keeps us alive. Anger keeps us going when we want to give up. Anger keeps us going when we feel weak and hopeless.
Anger makes us strong enough to do what we know needs to be done.
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